Let’s be real—confidence isn’t just something that magically appears the minute you walk into a boudoir session. (Though… that does happen a lot.) True confidence? It’s something you carry with you. Something you practice. And babe, just like a bomb winged liner or a playlist that hypes you up? It gets better the more you show up for yourself.
Whether you’re a boudoir alum or still hyping yourself up to book, here are 5 real-deal tips you can use to feel like that girl—in front of the camera, in the mirror, and in your everyday life.
1. Mirror Mantras (Say it ’til you believe it)
When’s the last time you looked in the mirror and said something kind to yourself? Start today. Every morning, pick a mantra and say it out loud to your reflection—yes, even if you feel silly. Try:
✨ “I am powerful, beautiful, and worthy of being seen.”
✨ “My body is not a project—it’s a masterpiece.”
✨ “She’s not perfect, she’s magic.”
Girl, you talk to your plants, your dog, and your coffee… you can definitely talk love into yourself too.
2. Style Your Lingerie For YOU
Newsflash: cute undies aren’t just for date night or boudoir shoots. Slip on that lace bralette or those cheeky panties just because. Wear them under your work clothes or while folding laundry. It’s not about who sees it—it’s about how it makes you feel.
Confidence starts underneath the surface, literally and emotionally.
3. Catch & Flip That Negative Self-Talk
We all have that mean little voice that pops up like, “Ugh, you look bloated” or “Why can’t you look like her?”
Time to hit mute.
Catch it. Pause. Flip the script.
Try: “My body is holding space for me today. That’s enough.” Or “Comparison is a lie. I choose me.”
Confidence isn’t being perfect—it’s being compassionate with yourself anyway.
4. Build a Power Ritual
Confidence is a vibe—and vibes are built.
Blast your favorite song while getting ready (hello, Beyoncé or Lizzo anthems), do your makeup with intention, light a candle, or wear perfume even if you’re just heading to Target. Little rituals remind you: You are worth the time, the care, and the sparkle.
Routines aren’t just for productivity—they can be for pleasure too.
5. Book the Damn Boudoir Shoot
Let’s not tiptoe around it—sometimes, you just need a push.
Book the session. Give yourself a date to look forward to. Something that says, I matter enough to be celebrated. Whether you’re at the beginning of your confidence journey or ready for your next glow-up, the boudoir studio is your stage—and we’ll be right there hyping you up every step of the way.
👉 [Book Your Experience Now]
You don’t need to lose weight. You don’t need more time. You don’t need permission.
You just need one brave “yes.”
Confidence isn’t something you find—it’s something you build.
And girl, brick by brick, you’re doing it.
With love, sass, and standing-taller energy,
Amanda + the Avid Artistry Team
